1. What insight, principle or observation from this week’s message did you find to be most helpful, eye opening or troubling? Please explain.
2. Have you ever been judged unfairly, with a harsh, critical, faultfinding kind of judgement? How did that leave you feeling, what did it do to your relationship with the person?
3. Have you ever been judged with a compassionate, consistent and fair judgement? How did you respond at first? How did it make you feel? What happened to the relationship with the person who judged you?
4. Christians are often pegged as being judgmental. Why does this seem to be such a struggle for Christians specifically, but people generally, especially religious people?
5. Read Matthew 7:1-2 Would you say Jesus is saying do not judge at all, or is he saying judge fairly? How do the next verses (3-5) help inform us as to what Jesus means?
6. Read Matthew 7:3-5. Why would judging someone when we haven’t judged ourselves fairly first, be a slippery slope to being or becoming a harsh critic?
7. When you honestly deal with yourself, and go through the painful process of removing a plank from your own eye, how does that set us up better to be a compassionate judge when dealing with other people's speck?
8. Read Matthew 7:6. What is Jesus’ point in this verse (hint: it is not about calling people names like dog or pig). Why is it dangerous to hold people accountable to the ways of the Kingdom, when they have not yet received the kingdom? What might this say about Christians judgmental attitude to the world?
9. Ironically some of the most critical, fault finding people are those who struggle to see or admit the fault in their own lives. What would it look like for you to grow in seeing that, and receiving it from others when they lovingly point it out to you, so that you don’t become the judgmental person Jesus is telling us to guard against?
10. Pray together.